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Watch for signs of teen suicide

Watch for signs of teen suicide

On the news the other day they were discussing the suicide of a teenager when the announcer said suicide is now the second biggest cause of teen deaths in South Africa. Disturbing as this is, it did not surprise me. In 1986, when I was a psychology intern, I worked at...
It’s a tragedy when grief can’t be expressed

It’s a tragedy when grief can’t be expressed

I consulted with a 65-year-old woman some time ago. For 42 years she had been involved in a relationship with a man she described as “beautiful”. He had died from colon cancer a few weeks prior to her seeing me. She was lonely and missing him terribly. I...
Wife abuse his rife in SA, and knows no barriers

Wife abuse his rife in SA, and knows no barriers

During the normal course of my work, I regularly treat people who are victims of violence. These are ordinary South Africans who have survived hijackings, muggings and robberies. Some have endured terrible beatings and torture, and almost inevitably end up suffering...
Learning to cope with death

Learning to cope with death

I attended two funerals this week. One was a 32-year-old who was killed in a motorcycle accident and the other was 78-year-old who died after a long struggle with cancer. What was interesting for me was the response of the mourners at the two funerals. For the young...
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